Sometimes in life you have to play a role like a fool coz our seniors, our peers and sometimes even our juniors like it. That does not mean we lose in the game of life. It just means allowing others to win in one arena of the game, while we win in the other arena of the game. We have to choose which arena matters to us and which don’t. “The day I win the game from their arena, they will stop having fun and I will stop succeeding from my side.”
You don’t know it yet, but I’ll end up becoming a very important part of your life even when I’m no longer there. You’ll find yourself constantly thinking of those times when you had your chances, but you let them slip because your arrogance blinded you from what you really wanted. You’ll understand much later on that everything you’ve been looking for had been standing right there in front of you all along.
Giving up reduces your life. Letting go expands it.
Giving up is imprisoning. Letting go is liberation.
Giving up is self-defeat. Letting go is self-care.
So the next time you make the decision to release something or someone that is stifling your happiness and growth, and a person has the audacity to accuse you of giving up or being weak, Remind yourself that you don’t need anyone’s permission or approval to live your life in the way that feels right. No one has the authority to tell you who to be or how to live, okay?
You are not a back-up plan.You are worth more than someone’s second choice.
You can’t force yourself to stop caring for someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better. Never settle to be someone’s second best.
Raise your standards and choose to be with someone who will treat you with the same respect and consideration you would treat them. You can’t expect to be someone else’s priority if you aren’t your own!
Put Yourself First Your Happiness First!
No matter who you are, what you look like, or what you share with the world, there will always be someone who doesn’t approve. And that’s absolutely okay.
You’re not going to like everyone and not everyone is going to like you. And that isn’t some fundamental failing on your part — that’s just Life. It’s normal, and it’s nothing to beat yourself up over. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be accepted, but you shouldn’t ever have to change who you are for the sake of winning someone else’s approval. You don’t live for other people. It isn’t your job to conform to their idea of what constitutes a “worthwhile” human being.
You are who you are, and you’re enough. Instead of focusing on all the people who don’t accept or appreciate you, take some time today to remind yourself of all the people who do. It’s easy to forget about them, but they exist and they care. They’re the people who matter. To them, you matter. Let go of the rest.
Life is a theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone should have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives.
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.
It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships, friendships and family!
Everyone Can’t be in Your FRONT ROW.
Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don’t really understand, know or appreciate you?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you… the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of YOUR LIFE.
” If you cannot change the people around you, Change the people you are around.”
Remember that the people we hang with have an impact both our lives and our income. And so we must be careful to choose the people we hang out with, as well as the information with which we feed our minds. We should not share our dreams with negative people, nor feed our dreams with negative thoughts.
It is your choice and your life. It is up to you, who and what you let in.
LIFE IS A THEATRE. INVITE YOUR AUDIENCE CAREFULLY…
I met you as a unknown one, Now I have you as a Friend.I hope we meet in our next walk of Life where Friendship never Ends. I may not be the most important person in your Life, I just hope that when you hear my name you Smile😀 & say that’s My Friend!!!💃
Forward this only to those special IDIOTS whom you never want to Lose💯. Just want to say… LOVE you all Buddies💕
“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.”
Family beyond blood”……:-Indomitable spirit of Georgians♥
Tender age of 10 and rising early morning for PT and getting dressed up the most annoying task. Initial days of running puffing and panting for breath , being jostled by seniors and threatening words of “fallin” instilling the sense of fortitude. Getting late for breakfast and getting the order of fallin after lunch from those dreaded lot of seniors ( Duty cadet ) Meanwhile the classes hours the most difficult moments to endure with the feeling of fallin after lunch. But the best part was the camaraderieship of classmates giving a sigh of relief that yes they r there to accompany us…..lol!! Meanwhile the whole class having a nap while the teacher enters the class. Now comes the most awaiting moment , for the mistake committed in the morning and enduring the punishment and whack on the backside , (poignant for being in the school). Uttimes sleeping in the dormitory during classes hours and getting caught by seniors. Sometimes coming out of mess with half stomach because of the stringent rule of not sitting after grace. Jumping the walls to go for the night show missing the roll call. Midnight going to station to have Maggie and the moments of fun in the way.
Today sharing these anecdotes have remained confined only to the extent of phone calls. Those words of seniors of not getting such people beyond these 4 walls today seems to b right. 😊
In those days we compromised with the love and care of our parents which was well compensated by those pals we got for life.
Hope to meet all of them very soon with everyone achieving success in their chosen calling. 💐 Long Live the Georgian Spirit!
Courtesy: Georgian Bhavesh
I’ve learned from life that sometimes, the Darkest times can bring us to the Brightest places.
That our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary Growth; and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most Wonderful people.
I’ve learned that what seems like a curse at the moment can actually be a blessing, and that what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path.
I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always Hope.
And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we just can’t Give Up.
We have to keep going.
Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through.
We’ve made it this far.
We can make it through whatever comes next, I mean whatever!
And this is what gonna bring ‘HEROIC LIFE’ to You!